Most men in furniture could benefit from recognizing and
cultivating their feminine dimension.
Men possessing a healthy feminine perspective probably
enjoy a more balanced and fulfilled life, personally and professionally.
Of course, for some straight men, the mere thought they could
actually possess any kind of feminine dimension prompts defensiveness, snickers
and varying degrees of discomfort that can unleash a torrent of baseless fears.
Get over it, guys. A man (an industry) in touch mentally
with his feminine side has little or nothing to do with sexual orientation, but
everything to do with human orientation.
The reality is men possess a feminine dimension embedded
within their psyches, whether they want to acknowledge it or not. If you’ve got
it, use it.
For savvy men, tapping into this fantastic, rewarding and
fascinating reservoir actually demonstrates and enhances strength, confidence,
courage and expanded empathy. Sounds manly to me.
Possessing gender balance acknowledges in a profound way a
verity we all know: Women see and feel the world differently than men. This
fact is good and necessary, just as much as the converse is: Men see and feel
the world differently than women.
The difference is where the twain meets, which is the
other verity: Most women are accustomed (out of survival) to
thinking (out-thinking) like a man much more than most men know how or want to think like
a woman. For any men still fidgeting about this concept, I said think like a
woman and not necessarily act ss a woman, if that really matters.
Okay, enough psycho analytics for now. So what do men’s
feminine dimension have to do with brassieres, panties and furniture, anyway?
Quite a bit because the relationship between cherished
undergarments and furniture is all about a person’s grounded perspective of
life. It's what she holds near and dear, literally and figuratively.
Personal undergarments and home dressing are powerful
personal expressions and acknowledgments of how a woman feels about herself.
Foundations are critical for stability, physically and mentally.
Any doubt whether a woman's sensibilities about herself significantly influences and shapes her action?
Clearly, her action defines the
depth and confidence she possesses in the way she honors and recognizes her
special self and the comfort she can provide and influence in her life and others.
Now about brassieres and panties. Whether simple or
ornate, these undergarments possess significance more than function for woman.
In women’s psyches, underwear becomes integral, actualizing adornments, honoring and holding a special package as a nurturer of life, in a
decidedly special way of acknowledging and sensing herself that few men may ever
contemplate, although they should.
My observation is not advocating a case for cross
dressing physically, but is an argument for mentally comprehending the
significant difference and acting accordingly — cross gender thinking for whole
brain health.
Why? Women’s innate sense of needing special adornment is necessarily conflated with their unique world-view, affecting virtually every way they comport their lives.
Regarding furniture, she seeks to validate her innate sense of personal “specialness” and responsibility and extends this tremendous gift of perspective and empathy to her environment, all the more critical in a familial setting.
For all the furniture men, getting in touch with your
feminine dimension would help you realize that women validate their world to
discover ways to adorn their lives and family whenever possible.
So, when women are bombarded with reflexive male
injunctions (marinated in testosterone) and declarations about price and discount, they immediately
disregard and dismiss the insulting bluster. It's the equivalent of a rude
whistle or a fatuous catcall to compensate, possibly, for insecurity and lack of self esteem.
Women instinctively filter the blather to discern how the
latest gimmickry-filled promotion could be helpful in any way to them and their
family of one or several to live better and more comfortably with furniture.
If they can’t discern how furniture can become a special
adornment to their home (and their lives), they leave the store or studio,
reject the ad or click to another website.
Guess what?: Women know they have to pay for furniture,
and that all stores provide some kind of financing program.
Men in control of their feminine dimension are aware of this reality. They act to succeed for a simple reason of: Transforming furniture’s typical message into an aspiring adventuresome invitation is to inform, guide and educate women wanting to honor a store for earnestly helping them discover how to live better and more comfortably.
Good things are in store for courageous men who really
know the difference between men and women, and willing to think and act about
it.
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